Showing posts with label Eric Cepin. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Eric Cepin. Show all posts

Sunday, 15 January 2017

Community Part 1



Community is a natural thing for all of us. We all exist in some form of community somewhere in some way. Most of us have attended high school.  I, of course, have a hard time remembering high school, but high school is often our first adult experience of community.
                        What kind of communities do we have in high school? We’ve got the nerds, the dorks, the geeks, and the goths, the list goes on and really these are just groups of people – clicks.  All of these groups have, at the bare minimum, shared interests.  These shared interests link them together.  For the most part, everyone has this innate desire within themselves to gather with people who have something in common with them. I think this is demonstrated in our culture, in a broken way, through reality TV.  In particular, the television show Survivor. I know a lot of people say they don’t like the show, but really, I think most of us secretly do. It’s not hip to like it, so most people say they are not a fan, but then they go home watch Survivor or go to the bars to watch the show.
                        Why is Survivor so popular? Well, because it fits nicely into our post-modern world, in the sense that, to win the game, you have to form alliances? To win the game you have to have some sense of community. You have to work together to make progress in this game but ultimately there is only one winner - so betrayal is an intricate part of the game, and that’s what our culture resonates with.  Survivor touches on our longing to be part of a community, but it also touches on the reality that we cannot truly trust anyone, because if we do, they will ultimately stab us in the back.  
                        This longing for community is woven into the very fabric of who we are.  In the very first pages of world history in the book of Genesis, God speaks the world into existence. He speaks mountains and oceans and animals, tigers, lions, and elephants into reality. He speaks life into existence. In chapter one verse 26 of Genesis God creates human beings.  God said let us make man in our image and in our likeness. Let them rule over the fish of the sea and the birds of the air, over the livestock, over all the earth and over all the creatures that move along the ground.
                        The story continues in verse 27 - God created man in his own image and the image of God he created him male and female he created them. Two things should be noted here. God created man and woman in his image, but there is an interesting thing about God’s image. What does he say in verse 26? He says let us make man in our image, in our likeness. In the beginning of the page, the first page of Genesis, at least in my book of the university edition of the bible, we find God saying - Let us create man in our image. We see the trinity, a picture of God the father, God the son, and God the Holy Spirit, creating man in their image which means that you and I are created by a community.
                        At our core, we find, that we are created for community. We were created to be with like kind. If you move to chapter two in Genesis, there is a more detailed account of this creation story. God has created all the animals and everything. He is going to place man into the garden and man does not have any needs. The reason the is important is because God is says something very dramatic in verse 18. The Lord God said, “It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him.”
It is not good for man to be alone. Man has everything, perfect relationship with God. No need for food, shelter everything is just there for him. Yet it is not good for him to be alone. Now a lot of young men will take this and say, “See that just means it is not good for man not to have a wife.” This is not to hard to agree with, but I think this statement goes far beyond a wife because everything is right. Everything is perfect. No sin has entered the garden at this point and something is not good - being without like kind. That is important. It shows that we are created for each other.  I believe this transcends just the man and the woman. It is about the human race.  We need each other.
The Genesis story continues - Adam gets Eve and Adam and Eve sin. They disobey God. They eat from the tree that they are not supposed to eat from. They are removed from the garden and everything is impacted.  The community of the environment, the community of animals, and the community of man are all thrown into chaos, and all those communities are damaged because of sin. No longer can the community of man and the community of God have any kind of meaningful relationship. It is now a broken relationship.

Wednesday, 28 December 2016

6 Reasons Why Most Churches shouldn't push past the 200 person Attendance Mark

1. Pastoral Care is important. 
Being a pastor is a lost art.  No, pastors don't need to be at every party, at every hospital stay, every birthday or funeral, but they do need to be knee deep in the manure of their community.  Life is messy and it takes time.  The point of being a pastor is not to free up your time so you can manage and administrate better - healing happens one person at a time.

2. Strategic Planning is not the point
The larger you get, the more strategic you become.  People's stories become a means to an end instead of the point.   Yes, the church is an organization, and it should be organized and the mission should be clear and the question of how something is going to be a accomplished is important.  But, Holiness is much more substantial than a few more buts in the seats.

3. Developing leaders is a tricky art that takes a long time, and it is prone to failure
Jesus took 3 years to develop his leaders, and I suspect he spent time with them before the three years we have recorded in the Gospels. 

4. Volunteers need the opportunity to mess things up
Excellence is not what the church is about.  Yes, we need to do things well, but if we are hindered by quality control, we will never give people the opportunity to learn through practice.

5. A church ruled by small groups is dangerous!
Yes, small groups are important in the life of the church, but they are not the answer to all the church's problems.  They are not a substitute for pastoral care, and they are not what gives you church a better sense of community.  Discipleship, life on life irritation, is best served over coffee over many weeks.

6. Your analytics change for the worse 
The way you understand success changes as you get bigger.  There is a point when people take a back seat to a hyper focus on the implementation of the mission for each event.

 

Thursday, 29 May 2014

Eric's Summer Parenting Thoughts

My desire as a parent is to develop my children into disciplined followers of Jesus.  Below I've written a few of my thoughts on the matter. 

1. Parents need to committed to this desire.  It is hard work and results do not come in the overnight variety
1a. Children should learn that they are not the number one priority 100% of the time. They cannot demand to have what they want - when they want it - how they want it.

2. Parents need to be clear: Lay out the expectations!
2a. Rules of being a child: Be proactive (Do what mom says before she says it.)  Scan for problems (Check your room, check the dishes, etc).  Figure it out: (Problem solve before you involve your parents.)

3. Parents should give their children important jobs and responsibilities: Cooking for company.  Caring for younger siblings.  Help plan vacations.
3a. Children need to learn to be faithful with little in order to receive much.

4. Parents - Jesus matters.  Jesus is connected to the why of the practical.  The "why" should be repeated over and over again.
4a. Children should learn that life is integrated.  What we do and says is directly connected to who Jesus is, and what did on the cross.

5. Parents, when you give your kids important things to do, they will make a mess and not meet your expectations.
5a. Children learn by making messes

6. Parents, let your children listen in on conversations about important family decisions.
6a. Children need to learn to listen and not interrupt.

7. Parents should know their values (the why we do it that way).  Values dictate the why of life.
7a Children need to learn to ask good "why" questions.

8. Parents should take time to allow for evaluation from their peers, pastors, and children.  It is a humbling experience that I tend to avoid, but it can be very helpful.
8a. Children should learn to be kind and gracious when discussing their parents weakness.

9. Parents should give their children specific feedback.  Good Job is not really helpful.
9a. Children need to learn to take feedback without arguing.

10. Your parenting style is not the only good/bad way out there.  Talk to parents who do it differently than you do.  Iron sharpens iron.
10a.  Children, just because they do it differently at "Johnny's House" doesn't mean that your parents are doing something wrong.


Thursday, 15 May 2014

How the Song "Trinity" was written

The below article from NT Wright inspired me to write the now "Village infamous Song: Trinity."

Epilogue
The Prayer of the Trinity
(Originally published in New Tasks for a Renewed Church, 1992, London: Hodder.  Also published as Bringing the Church to the World, 1992, Bethany House, U.S.A., 209-15.  Reproduced by permission of the author.)
by Tom Wright

Trinity Sunday
Isaiah 6:1-8; Ephesians 1:3-14; John 14:8-17

I suggested in chapter 13 that there might be different sorts of prayer that could be explored by those seeking appropriate paths of spirituality within the modern world.  In each of the three lectionary readings for Trinity Sunday, the revelation of the threeness of God comes in the context of prayer and worship.  If we are truly speaking of the true God, then the truest form of that speech can never be abstract discussion about God.  It must be speech addressed to God.  It must be worship.  It must be prayer.
I want, in this brief epilogue, to suggest one form of prayer in particular that seems to me to encapsulate all that I have been trying to say.  It grows out of several concerns and backgrounds, and I believe it may be helpful to some who are wrestling with these issues and seeking to do so in a Christian way, that is, not by mere intellectual effort alone, but through prayer, meditation, and a settled and steady seeking of God’s will and way.  I am aware that prayer and temperament are intertwined, and there may well be some who, for perfectly good reasons, will find my suggestions incomprehensible or unnecessary.  I trust that they will excuse this short chapter, and leave it for those who may find something in it to their profit.

The Village Song Trinity:

Wednesday, 28 August 2013

The Myth of Endless Energy

To all those type "A" people.  To the ones who get a lot more done than the rest of us.  To all wide-eyed hopeful people of industry.  I tip my glass, and then I take a nap.  Sleepy.

I wonder often . . . Were we all so anxious 100 years ago?  I wonder often . . . How do I rise and build?  How do I bend my back and lean into all that I've been called to?  How do I work with purpose?  How does one build the kingdom?

Fight.  Fight for my wife, kids, and church.  The Enemy plots against us.  He despises God, but we must stand our ground.  The horn must be blown.  The Enemy is on our door step.  The Father - our God - is our shield and spear.  We fight for our families with the weapons of our God.  Oh God, be our shield and spear.

Jesus help us make it through the night.  At the cross we sit.  Hopeful for your return.  Hopeful for your relief.  God is our refuge.  Fear is as high as mountains, but a river flows to our mouths.  Stillness is all I have.  The Spirit of God stands with me.  The weight of life is relieved in the city.  The strength of God is under my right and left arm.  The Kingdom will not fall.  The Stream.  It makes me Glad.  It will not fall.

Our hearts must meet God.  No more hiding.  A full accounting of our secret idols must be proclaim.  But God's words are often met with resistance and emptiness.  Show us the ancient ways.  Meet us at the cross roads.  At the cross roads our walls fall and the good way is revealed.  Look, Ask, and Walk . .  for you will find rest for your soul.






Friday, 19 July 2013

I Failed

I'm sitting in my living room, and I have this inescapable feeling of failure. My sin, my weakness, my selfishness, my shortsightedness has flooded my space with beams of darkness. The dreams that I once dreamed seem careless and poorly constructed. How long Jesus before you return. How long before failure has no impact. It is not my enemies that I am afraid of, its my friends. I dropped my sword. I let my horse run free. I didn't speak when I should have. I didn't risk. Jesus, I need your help. My friends need your help. My church needs your help. We . . . I can't do this without guidance. Father God, you are mighty. You created the earth in all of its beauty. Thank you for my wife. Thank you for my kids. Thank you for my housemates. You placed me in Tucson. You have guided my steps and redeemed my mistakes. Please, heal me. Please, restore the brokenness in my church. Mend the neglected relationships and strengthen the families that are being stretched to the breaking point. Father, restore the dream. Jesus, I'm a sinner. I've kept my mouth shut when I should have said something. I am afraid. I want people to like me. I hate conflict, and I'm self-defensive. Jesus. I want to follow you. Show me what you are doing in my life, in my family, in my friendships, and in my church. Give me the courage to join you in your mission. Holy Spirit, I'm listening. . .

Sunday, 14 July 2013

Sunday July 14, 2013

Good Morning!!

Good morning doughnuts.  Good morning bad coffee.  Good morning tired children.  Good morning sugar-rushed-caffeine high.  Good morning golf.  Good morning Pit. Good morning dancing Elliott and giggly Ashton.  Good morning disappointed-you-bought-the-wrong-doughnut mom.

Good Morning Jesus. 

I'm looking forward to a bunch of giggly kids tonight.  I can't wait to hear the new song I wrote. 


Saturday, 13 July 2013

Saturday Mornings - Streaming

Hot and Muggy.  Sun go away.  Clouds come and make Tucson overcast and grey.  Lost on most - the motivational winds that carry us through minor accomplishment.  The sounds of the buzzy bugs is just down right bothersome.  Sleepy children dreaming of August 1st - the dreaded back-to-school day - when their little bodies must rise like zombies to have their brains filled with numbers, letters, and bullies.

Church - people - struggle - music - life.  The contemplation of meaning grabs a hold of tired souls.  We all run.  We all slide.  We all fall down.  Who will lift us?  Will we let Him, or should the stiff arm of stubborn silliness tickle our ever numbing brain into an evil resistance that owns us.  The responsibility is crushing us.   No . . . don't leave us.  Don't let your fear and the voices control you.  No, the word that Nancy Reagan gave us.  It has power.  Yell it in the demon's direction.  Pronounce it over the chaos that threatens to consume you.  There is no temptation that has seized you . . . God is faithful.

Monday, 14 February 2011

Lists on Monday

1. Loved cooking at the Village yesterday. Nothing like pot roast, potatoes, carrots, onions, green beans, and good bread.
2. The Music rocked last night.
3. Thrift Store Bureaucracy played Poison Tree for the first time.
4. Please show Mike Wise's Song some love: This World Just Breaks My Heart
5. We finished the Gospel Of Mark last Night.
6. Check-out our splash videos and other cool media from the Village.